In
the popular 1990’s television series “Seinfeld,” George Costanza attends a
child’s birthday party at the apartment where his girlfriend, Robin, lives. A
clown is providing entertainment. George suddenly says, “What’s that smell?
Is that smoke?” He hurries into the kitchen, turns and runs out in a panic
yelling FIRE, knocking over the clown, an old lady with a walker, and a couple
of kids. “Get out of my way!” he screams, as he opens the front door of
the apartment and races outside. In the next scene, George is getting oxygen
from a paramedic.
Suddenly,
the clown runs over to George and says, “There he is! That’s him!”
Several angry children and moms gather round. “That’s the coward that left
us to die!” The clown tries to hit George with an oversized show. George
replies, “I was trying to lead the way. We needed a leader, someone to lead
the way to safety.” Robin objects, “But you yelled, ‘Get out of my way!’”
“Because as the leader,” George continues, “if I die, then all hope
is lost. Instead of castigating me, you
should be thanking me.”
“But
I saw you push the women and children out of the way in a mad panic.” Robin
yells. “I saw you push them down. And when you ran out, you left everyone
behind.” George refutes, “To the untrained eye maybe, I can fully
understand how you got that impression. What looked like knocking down was a
safety precaution. In a fire, you stay close to the ground. Am I right? That’s
why I pushed them down. I risked my life making sure the exit was clear.”
The fireman looks at George and says, “How do you live with yourself?” “It’s
not easy,” George replies.
Our
culture is ambiguous; it sends mixed messages. On the one hand, it says that
the goal of life is materialism, fame, status, power, wealth, pleasure. These
are the values one should aspire to. We
see examples all the time of greed, avarice, narcissism, and selfishness. We hear people say “me first” “live for
yourself,” and “my individual rights above everyone’s.” He who dies with the
most toys wins reflects our culture. Our culture further confuses celebrities
with true heroes. But is being famous and wealthy, the same as being a hero or
being a role model? Of course not, because sacrifice is about character and
dedication toward others. Having intelligence or talent has nothing to do with
a sacrificial life.
On
the other hand, sacrifice is an American value, grounded in our Judeo-Christian
ethic. Our culture also promotes the high values of altruism, self-sacrifice,
commitment, big-heartedness, service above self. We see these values manifested
in people’s generous giving to charities, in service clubs, in organizations,
in churches, in the outpouring of generosity to victims of natural disasters
around the world, in the sacrifice of the men and women in the military, in
community-wide searches for missing persons, in volunteerism, and in runs and
walks to raise money for worthy causes like cancer, autism, heart disease, and
Parkinson’s disease. We see it in the generous aid our government provides to
countries around the world.
Think
about this question, “Can you sacrifice too much for someone?” Are there
limits? I’m not speaking about donating a kidney, or financially helping
someone with their education, or even giving your life for someone in danger. I am speaking about situations I’ve seen over
the years, as a pastor, where grown children and grown grandchildren take
advantage of their parents or grandparents.
They continue to ask for money for this or that reason. They just keep
asking and pressuring and make parents or grandparents feel terribly guilty.
Asking can become a form of manipulation. It can drain the resources of the
giver. It enables underachievement rather than inspiring motivation and
ambition. Sometimes, the hardest word to say is “No” rather than “Yes.”
Saying no takes courage, strength, and prayer.
Who
has made a sacrifice for you? The truth is that everyone here this morning has
benefited from someone’s sacrifice: their time, their resources, their wisdom
and knowledge, their patience, their talents and skills, their protection,
their sympathy, their encouragement, their love, their faith. People who
sacrifice for us inspire us to want to do the same for others. Thank you Lord
for the sacrifices of others on our behalf. Can I get an AMEN?!
From
a Biblical and faith perspective, the willingness to sacrifice stems from the
desire to please God; it’s an expression of love, of thanksgiving to God, of a
desire to serve Christ. It shows that we know who we are—persons made in God’s
image and persons forgiven and redeemed by God’s amazing grace, through
Christ’s life, death on the cross, and resurrection. Yes, sacrifice is indeed a noble value of our
Judeo-Christian tradition.
Romans
6:13 says, “Give yourselves completely to God, every part of you. You want
to be tools in the hands of God to be used for His good purposes.” I Peter
2 says, “Let yourselves be built into a spiritual house, to be a holy
priesthood, to offer spiritual sacrifices acceptable to God, through Jesus
Christ.” Romans 12 says, “Present your bodies as a living sacrifice,
holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship.”
In
Old Testament times, priests would sacrifice animals in temple worship. They
would kill an animal, place it on the altar, and offer it to God. In the
Prophetic Tradition of the Old Testament, in prophets like Isaiah, Micah, and
Amos, God also summoned the Jews to live sacrificial lives: “To do justice,
to love kindness, and to walk humbly with God.” Early Christians began to
curb animal sacrifice, and after the Jewish temple was destroyed by the Romans
in 64 A.D. the early Christians heard Jesus’ call to offer themselves as living
sacrifices, daily laying aside their own desires, to follow him, putting their
energy and resources at God’s disposal and trusting in God’s guidance. God
calls us, you and me, to be living sacrifices, that He might accomplish His
purposes through us.
Superficial
love never requires sacrifice. Genuine love always requires sacrifice. You
cannot truly love somebody—your spouse, your friend, your child, your
grandchild, your neighbor, you cannot love God—without sacrificing, without a
cost, without giving up something.
Do
you ever feel unappreciated when you give of yourself, when you sacrifice for
someone, when you do the right thing? You start thinking, “Why bother?
What’s the use? Why make the effort? Nobody cares. Nobody notices. No one says
‘Thank You’.” When you sacrifice to help other people, know this, God sees
your actions. God knows your attitude. The Bible says God sees your witness,
God remembers your witness, and God will reward your witness.
I
read a story about a doctor in Birmingham ,
Alabama . On Jan uary 28, 2014, in the dead of winter, Dr. Zenko
heard that a patient at Trinity
Medical Center
had taken a turn for the worse. The patient needed surgery, no other surgeon
was available and the patient had a 90 percent chance of dying. Driving wasn’t
an option because of the snow and ice. Emergency personnel were busy.
So
the 62-year-old doctor faced these brute facts and proceeded to take action. He
put a coat over his hospital scrubs and started walking, six miles in the snow,
from Brookwood Medical
Center to Trinity Medical
Center . Along the way, he
fell and rolled down a hill, but got back up. He finally arrived at Trinity,
performed the surgery, and saved a patient’s life. In a later press conference,
the doctor was asked why he did it. He said, “It really wasn’t that big of a
deal. Any good doctor would have done the same thing. The patient was
dying and that wasn’t going to happen on my shift.” Why is it that people
who sacrifice for others are often so humble?
What
contributions are you going to make with your life in the years you have left?
What is it that gives significance, meaning, and purpose in a life? Giving your
life away is the greatest thrill of life. It’s the secret of significance. It’s
the key to happiness. The truth of scripture is clear: to save our lives we
must lose them, in giving we receive, in dying to self we find true life, in servanthood
we find greatness.
How
can we learn to be a living sacrifice? First, worship God! Prayer changes us.
Worship changes us. God’s Spirit changes us. Psalm 50:23 says, “True praise
to God is a worthy sacrifice.”
Second,
love and serve others! Jesus gave His life for us. Because Christ first loved
us, we too should love one another. I John 3:16 says, “We ought to give our
lives for each other.”
Third,
share Good News with others. Share your faith with others. Hebrews 13:15 says,
“With Jesus’ help we will continually offer our sacrifice of praise by
telling others the glory of His name.”
Following
Jesus opens up a new way of life. Where in your life today is Christ calling
you to make a sacrifice? Amen!
Hi. Can you tell me the origin of the Cross Photo (with arms upraised). Is it Copyright? I would love to use it for a project. Just checking. Thanks. Jules Riding, New Zealand
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