A mother writes: “While
our family was leaving Disneyland , after a fun
day, our sons Tyler and Cory, ages six and two were walking hand-in-hand behind
my husband and me. We overheard Tyler tell his younger
brother Cory, ‘This is what heaven is like--except it's free!’”
In the summer of 2004, 75 year old Fred
Smith of Dallas Texas , was hospitalized in a semi-conscious
condition and not expected to live.
Family members heard him repeat, "I want to go home…I want to go
home." After an emotional family
conference, they concluded that they should respect his wishes and take no
extraordinary measures to keep him alive.
For the next 36 hours, the family read Scripture, prayed, and said their
goodbyes. His daughter Brenda sat with
him till midnight. Coughing finally broke through Fred's deep sleep and he
suddenly awoke.
Brenda told him of the family's decision to
follow his desire to "go home." She explained that he would gently
slip into unconsciousness and then God would welcome him into his heavenly
home. Suddenly, Fred's eyes opened wide and he said: Brenda, “I don't mean
heaven, I mean my home, you know, my home on Parkchester Drive ." Laughing through
tears, we took him back home.
A question which has haunted the
minds of men and women down through the ages was asked by Job in the Old
Testament: “If a man dies, will he live
again?” As a pastor,
I have spoken to many people over the years about their attitude toward
death. People have different
perspectives about it. Age is an
important factor, like whether you are young or elderly. Having dependent children living at home is
another significant factor.
The subject of death is ignored
by many, welcomed by others as a blessing, because it means an end to physical
or emotional suffering, and for still others death is feared. Some don't fear death per se, they fear
dying. “How am I going to die, will it be sudden and painless or prolonged and
agonizing?” Some people believe death
means the end, our complete extinction and others believe life continues on in
some mysterious and unexplainable way.
I have personally ministered to
grieving families over the years. I have
been with people in their final moments before death. I have experienced the death of both of my
parents and I can say that we are never really ready when that moment
arrives. When the last trumpet sounds it
always takes us by surprise and comes as a shock.
If one dies, will one live
again? Cultures have different ideas
about life and death because for some the idea of total extinction is
unacceptable and unjust. The ideas,
perspectives and philosophies about death are innumerable.
Our culture offers symbolic
immortality as an answer; that is, symbolic modes of living on. For instance, there is the
biological/biosocial mode, living on in our family, in people's memories, in
our children, grandchildren, city, village, town, or nation. There is also the creative mode, living on in
one's accomplishments like having a school, like Kate Sessions Elementary, or a
hospital, like Ellen Browning Scripps, named after you. There is living on in your inventions,
writings, movies, music, art, philanthropy, or in having built something,
whether a playhouse for a child or the Freedom Tower in New York City, the tallest skyscraper in the
Western Hemisphere. Comedian Woody Allen
said: “I don’t want to achieve immortality by my work. I want to achieve it by not dying.”
Further, there is the nature
mode, living on by becoming one with the natural world, the ground or the
ocean, where our molecules are re-absorbed into nature. Others find comfort in the notion of
reincarnation, living on in another form of life. What do you think of symbolic
immortality? For Christians it may or
may not bring comfort and assurance about the after-life.
For Jesus' followers, the basis
of our hope, the ground of our confidence, our assurance about a life beyond
this life is grounded in Easter, the resurrection of Jesus, stories about the appearances
of Jesus following his resurrection, the testimony of eye-witnesses, and the
teachings of the scriptures. The
historical event of the resurrection and the testimony of the Bible, the word
of God, is the foundation of our assurance of the life to come in heaven.
Our Christian faith and the
scriptures declare the truth about the after-life, eternal life, everlasting
life, glory. Here again the words from
the letter of Philippians: “For as I have often told you before and now
say again even with tears, many live as enemies of the cross of Christ. Their
destiny is destruction, their god is their appetite, and their glory is in
their shame, their mind is on earthly things.
But our citizenship is in heaven, from which also we eagerly wait for a
Savior from there, the Lord Jesus Christ; who by the power that enables him to
bring everything under his control, will transform our lowly bodies so that
they will be like his glorious body.”
Jesus Christ, the Son of God, our
Lord and Savior, who sits at the right hand of God believed in and taught about
heaven. Jesus says: “Rejoice
and be glad, for your reward is great in heaven.” Jesus’ prays: “Our Father who art in heaven” and “thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven.” Jesus says: “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust
consume, and where thieves break in and steal, but store up for yourselves
treasurers in heaven.”
In II Corinthians we read: “For we
know that if the earthly tent we live in is destroyed, we have a building from
God, a house not made with hands, eternal in the heavens. For in this tent we
groan, longing to be clothed with our heavenly dwelling. He who has prepared us for this very thing is
God, who has given us the Spirit as a guarantee.”
I Peter says: “By God’s mercy, we have an inheritance
waiting for us in heaven.” Faith in
Christ the resurrected Lord, gives us a divine perspective through which we can
look at this life and the life to come. We have a dual citizenship. We are citizens of the United States
and citizens of heaven.
What is heaven like? We read in I Corinthians: “Now we
see in a mirror dimly, but then we shall see face to face. Now we know in part, then we will know fully
even as we are fully known.” What
will you see, what will you know? There
are so many questions: What will heaven
look like? Will heaven be boring? Is there an ocean in heaven? Am I good enough to go to heaven? Are there animals in heaven? Do you have to diet in heaven? Will I see family and friends in heaven? Can you drive in heaven?
Our knowledge is limited, but we
do have some answers. You will see
Jesus, face to face. You will see God
face to face. You will worship in
heaven. There will be no more death, nor
sorrow, nor crying, nor pain. You will
be evaluated by Jesus for how you lived out your Christian life on earth. You will be recognized for your treasures or
rewards, that is, those kindnesses, good deeds, and loving acts you performed
during your life time. You will be
reunited with loved ones. I can say
this to you with confidence, in the life to come, you will see and you will
know.
I remember when my mother died in
1988 at the age of 73. She died from the
effects of Parkinson’s disease and pneumonia.
I was overwhelmed with grief. A
month or so after she died, I saw her in a dream. Her faced was radiant. Her body was whole, healthy and
graceful. She was walking in a sunlit
meadow, she smiled and said: “Alan, I am OK, I’m fine. Get on with your life.” A wish-dream?
Some would say so. I don’t
believe it was. I believe I saw my
mother in heaven. I believe this dream
was an expression of God’s grace during my time of mourning.
Hear those moving words of Jesus’
promise – “Believe in me. In my father's house are many rooms, I am
going there to prepare a place for you, I would not tell you this if it weren't
not so, and after I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and take
you to myself, so that where I am, there you may be also.”
What an inspiring promise. Heaven is a gathering of the faith community,
the communion of saints. Just as Jesus
appeared to his followers following his resurrection, and they recognized
him and interacted with him and ate with
him, so heaven means for his followers that it will be a time of reunion with
Jesus, friends and loved ones. Heaven
is a realm where you will be forever released from pain and suffering, from
fear and death.
The Bible teaches that in heaven
we will receive a new body. Think about
that. Does that get your attention? We will not at death be reabsorbed into the
universe, like a drop in the ocean. Our
individual identity, created by God, will continue. I Corinthians says: “Some
ask, with what kind of body will I come to heaven?” We read in I Corinthians: “What
is sown is perishable, what is raised is imperishable, what is sown is mortal,
what is raised is immortal, what is sown is physical, what is raised is
spiritual. What is sown in dishonor is
raised in glory. What is sown in
weakness is raised in power. If it is sown a physical body, it is raised a
glorious body.” We will be clothed
with a heavenly dwelling.
Hear Jesus’ marvelous promise: “Because I live, you shall live also.” “I am the resurrection and the life, those
who believe in me, even though they die, shall live, and whoever lives and
believes in me will never die.”
Death, even acknowledging the
grief that accompanies it, should not be feared or dreaded. It should rather be seen as God's final gift
of grace, because beyond death lies a glorious heavenly homecoming when we
shall be with the Lord and others, where we shall dwell in the house of the lord
forever, and where we shall live as citizens.
I close with a quote from the
great evangelist Rev. Billy Graham: “When I arrive at heaven’s Gate, God will not
be impressed by the many crusades I have conducted. God will not be impressed that I spoke to
more people than anyone in the history of the Christian Faith. I come to the Gates of Heaven like anyone
else—in Jesus Christ and His all sufficient, sacrificial, substitutionary death
on the Cross for my sins. We will be in
heaven by the stripes on the back of Jesus Christ, not by any stripes, badges,
medals or honors that we have been awarded.” Why? Because heaven is the ultimate expression of
the grace of God. Amen!