Let me start with the title: Do
you have enough? Now, I’m sure you’re thinking: enough what? Enough of
anything? Enough money? Enough space in your house? Enough stuff?
Many people think that if they could only win the lottery,
they would have enough money; they would be set for life. People who win the
lottery think they then have enough. But does that kind of money really solve
all your problems? I read where 70% of lottery winners lose it all within seven
years.
Someone has suggested that we have become a culture of
clutter. The comedian, George Carlin, is quoted as saying that “the essence of
life is trying to find a place to put all your stuff.” The self-storage
business has certainly capitalized on that thought. According to the
Self-Storage studies, in March of this year there were approximately 50,000
self-storage facilities in the United
States . They note that, at the same point in
time, nearly on in ten US
households currently rent a self-storage unit. That has increased from 1 in 17
in the last 25 years—an increase of approximately 65%.
I know from personal experience. When I retired ten years
ago and moved to Houston ,
we downsized from a house with a two car garage to a townhouse with a carport.
We took ten Jeep Cherokee loads of “stuff” to the Hospice Thrift Shop in the
area we were moving from. We never missed a single thing.
What I have said so far about money and possessions is
nothing new to you. You have known it all your adult lives. You just didn’t
want to admit it, but what is really important is to take a look at life from a
godly viewpoint. Or as Ray Charles put it, “Live every day like it’s your last,
‘cause one day you’re gonna be right.” In other words, collecting stuff is not
what will be important on that last day of your life. You can have barns full
of “stuff” or banks full of money, and it will make no difference to you. I
mean face it—have you ever seen a hearse pulling a u-haul trailer?
I believe the man in Jesus’ parables missed the point. The
Lord prospered him, but he wanted to keep it all for himself. He forgot the Old
Testament command to tithe. I believe it is better to eliminate some of the
“stuff” and give more to the Lord’s work.
I read about a professor at USC who studied people’s
attitudes about money over a twenty-five year period. He found that “many
people are under the illusions that the more money we make, the happier we’ll
be. We put all of our resources into making money at the expense of our family
and our health... The problem is we don’t realize that our material wants
increase with the amount of money we make. The study discovered happiness was
related to:
·
Quality
time with loved ones,
·
Good
health,
·
Being
friendly,
·
Having
an optimistic outlook,
·
Exercising
self-control, and
·
Possessing
a deep sense of ethics.”
·
Duh!
Isn’t that what Jesus was teaching 2000 years ago?
You see, in this parable, Jesus is talking about more than
money or possessions or “stuff.” Jesus is talking about a higher calling in
life. He is teaching that real happiness comes from a completely different way
of life. Remember what the first question of the Westminster Catechism is?
“What is the chief end of man?” Or, to put it in modern language: “What is the
chief purpose of people’s existence?” The answer is: “To glorify God and enjoy
Him forever.”
So what is it that is important for a happy life? Three
things: First and foremost, is your relationship with God through Jesus Christ.
Second is a good relationship with others, and third is an optimistic outlook
on life. “Stuff” and money don’t even make the list.
When you have a good relationship with God, when you walk
daily with Jesus Christ, you’re well on your way to personal satisfaction.
Remember in the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus started out with what we now call
the “Beatitudes.” Each one starts, “Blessed are those who...” I’m not
encouraging you to repeat all nine of them, but I would encourage you to look
them up later today in Matthew 5. You will notice that not one of them mentions
“things.” When Jesus was saying in those beatitudes is that your trust in God
is what will bring blessings to your life. When you are walking hand in hand
with Jesus, day by day, life becomes a joyful time, a time of celebration.
We should be celebrating every day: celebrating the fact
that all is forgiven, celebrating the fact that God loves us and cares a great
deal about each and every one of us. We should be celebrating the fact that
victory is certain because of our faith in Jesus Christ. And that, my friend,
is a promise!
Paul tells us that Christians should be cultivating the
“Fruit of the Spirit” in our lives. Those nine fruit are: “love, joy, peace,
patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control.”
(Galatians 5:22-23 NCV) Did you notice as I read those that every one of them
is a positive, uplifting, happy characteristic? They are all part of
celebrating the joy of Christian living.
The second thing that makes for a happy life is our relationship
with others. Over the years, I have talked with many people who were miserable.
When we talked about what it is that is bothering them, it almost always comes
down to a troubled relationship with someone: a spouse, a child, some other
family member, a neighbor, a friend. Your relationships with others are
important to your happiness. Dr. Bernie Siegel has written extensively on
healing from a spiritual standpoint. His writing isn’t necessarily Christian,
but summing up briefly what he reports, it is clear that people in good
relationships, especially marriages, are happier and live longer.
The Apostle Paul gives us some good advice for keeping
happy relationships. He says, “Wish good for those who harm you; wish them well
and do not curse them. Be happy with those who are happy, and be sad with those
who are sad. Live in peace with each other. Do not be proud, but make friends
with those who seem unimportant. Do not think how smart you are.” (Romans
12:14-16 NCV) Jesus reminds us what to do when we have a disagreement with
someone else: “If you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember
that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there in front of
the altar. First go and be reconciled to your brother; then come and offer your
gift.” (Matthew 5:23-244 NIV)
You see, healthy relationships are so important to our
personal health and well-being. It is important to maintain friendships and
family relationships in good condition. Let’s face it, our own happiness
depends on it.
Now, I know there are some who are saying, “Well, I just
can’t repair that relationship, it’s too far gone.” It’s not too far gone. With
prayer and God’s help, you can make it right and you and the other person will
be better for it. Remember what Jesus told Peter when he asked how many times
he must forgive someone else? Peter thought he was being pretty magnanimous
when he suggested forgiving seven times. Jesus said, forgive seventy times
seven. And that didn’t mean 490 times. It was a Hebrew way of saying as many
times as necessary. I believe that as Christians, it is incumbent upon us to be
the one to make the effort, to take the first step toward reconciliation.
A teacher asked her students to list what they thought
were the present Seven Wonders of the World .
The students cast the most votes for:
1. Egypt ’s Great Pyramids
2. Taj Mahal
3. Grand
Canyon
4. Panama
Canal
5. Empire State
Building
6. St. Peter’s Basilica
7. China ’s Great Wall
While gathering the votes, the teacher noted that one
student was still working on her paper. She asked the girl if she was having
trouble with her list. The girl replied, “Yes, a little. I couldn’t quite make
up my mind because there are so many.” The teacher said, “Well, tell us what
you have, and maybe we can help.” The girl hesitated, then read, “I think the
Seven Wonders of the World are:
1. to see
2. to hear
3. to touch
4. to taste
5. to feel
6. to laugh
7. to love”
That child was on the right track!
The third key to our happiness is to maintain an
optimistic outlook on life. A study of 1,000 people aged 65-85 points to the
importance of a positive attitude in dealing with life. After almost 10 years
of follow-up, researchers found that people who described themselves as
optimistic had a 55% lower risk of death from all causes, and a 23% lower risk
of heart-related death. Optimistic people tend to be more physically active,
drink less, and smoke less. They cope with stress more effectively. While one’s
attitude toward life isn’t everything, it does make a crucial difference in
dealing with life. And who has more reason for optimism than Christians?
Christians have real reason to be optimistic. We have been
given promises that remind us that no matter what may happen today, tomorrow
with Jesus will be wonderful beyond our wildest dreams. We have an eternity of
joyful living to look forward to. What better reason to celebrate and give
thanks to God? The Bible says, “May the righteous be glad and rejoice before
God; may they be happy and joyful.” (Psalm 68:3 NIV) Paul put it this way, “May
the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that
you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” (Romans 15:13 NIV)
The rich man in today’s parable had as optimistic outlook
on life. But, it was based on how much “stuff” and how much money he had, not
on the promises of God.
Haddon Robinson, the eminent preaching professor, tells a
story similar to this parable of the rich fool. A man in today’s society opens
a newspaper and discovers the date on the newspaper is six months in advance of
the time in which he lives. He begins to read through the newspaper, and he
discovers stories about events that have not yet taken place. He turns to the
sports page, and there are scores of games not yet played. He turns to the
financial page and discovers a report of the rise or fall of different stocks
and bonds. He realizes this can make him a wealthy man. A few large bets on an
underdog team he knows will win will make him wealthy. Investments in stocks that
are now low but will get high can fatten his portfolio. He is delighted. He
turns the page and comes to the obituary column and sees his picture and story.
Everything changes. The knowledge of his death changes his view about his
wealth.
I’d like to close with a personal story about change
toward wealth and “stuff.” When Linda and I were called to the last church I
served, we were living in a big house in a lake waterfront community. We needed
that big place to house all our “stuff.” The place was killing us financially.
When I took the call to serve the little church in a little town called Jones Creek , Texas ,
we put the house on the market. We felt fortunate that we were going to be
living in a church-owned manse and not having to carry an additional mortgage
payment. We had a few folks look at the house at the lake, but not a single
offer. One day, I was looking over our finances and said to Linda, “You know,
we are struggling financially, but we are not tithing. I believe we need to
start tithing.” So we did that. The next Sunday we put a check in the
appropriate amount in the offering. That day, when we got home from church
there was a message on our answering machine. Remember those? It was the
realtor. She had a contract on the house. It sold and we closed a few weeks
later.
You see friends, it doesn’t matter if you have a lot or a
little, whether you are wealthy or poor, or if you have storage units filled
with stuff or not enough “stuff” to fill the space you live in. What is
important is that you are walking with God in a relationship with Jesus Christ.
If there is anyone here today who is not walking with Christ as their Savior
and Lord, anyone who is not celebrating the love of Christ, please talk to me
at the door today. You see, if you’re not walking with Christ, you don’t have
enough.